Wednesday, April 25, 2012

I was asked to write a letter for a project a friend is working on and now that my emotions are not so steamed up over the KE diet topic this was my response to the request...


As a mother of two tube fed children, my son four-years and my daughter has now been tube fed just over six-years. Initially when I came across the K.E. or feeding tube diet, I was very disturbed and very emotional. The fact that people are using this diet to lose up to 20 pounds rapidly through a forced state ketosis while having a feeding tube, typically reserved as last resource medical devices.

While my emotions have calmed down, I still do not understand why people would want to force their bodies into a state of ketosis or use a medical device that is known to cause pain, infection, and uncomfort, for the sake of losing weight.

Our family has faced heart issues, multiple surgeries, feeding difficulties, and severe ketosis causing near organ failure. Feeding tubes have saved the lives of our two youngest children, and ketosis nearly took my life.

Backing up six-months ago, I was in the hospital with severe idiopathic non-diabetic ketoacidosis. Test results could not provide answers as to why my body was shutting down and I suffered severe hypoglycemic episodes. Daily potassium and glucose IV bags barely balanced out sugar and potassium levels.

Eight-years ago, our son was born with a heart disorder, severe reflux, and needed an abnormally high caloric intake due to his body burning nearly as much as he was taking in just to breath and heal his heart. Our son used his feeding for four-years and his eight various surgeries his body endured.

Just over six-years ago, our youngest and greatest blessing entered our family. From day one, she has fought hard for her life. For the first five-months, she bounced between bottle and NG-tube feeds. It became clear she would not tolerate the painful NG-tube feeds for long and found creative ways to remove her NG-tube requiring a permanent tube placement.

Suddenly I found myself handling two young children with feeding tubes, feeding pumps, and backpacks. One could eat some foods by mouth one could not. With time, my son learned to eat and had his feeding tube removed. However, our daughter now nearly seven-years old, still requires all her nourishment from her feeding tube and is not allowed to eat anything by mouth and is hoping that soon she can start trying to eat foods again.

While our family story is very condensed in this brief write up, you can find more about our family our struggles as we help our daughter cope with not being to eat anything by mouth by visiting our family blog at http://sixlittlemonkies.blogspot.com you can also learn more about her early struggles at our Carepages at http://www.carepages.com/ under the name ChantelleRose.

Thank you for taking the time to read this collection of stories, we hope you feel the strength we get from sharing our stories.

DME Delivery FINALLY!!!

Oh my goodness!! Once again prayers have been answered. We are literally down to just enough of the new formula Ellie desperately needs to get us through tonight. I had made the decision to cut her intake in half and give pedialytle for the rest of her fluid in take just so she could have formula nutrition for school tomorrow and was praying the formula we have paid out of pocket would arrive tomorrow while she was in school.

Instead we just got a call that we do not have to do this. She FINALLY after a month of fighting with the insurance, and calling back and forth with the new DME, her case manager, the peds office, her GI office, TriCare referral management (yes all these groups) that all the scripts, auths, everything is FINALLY in place and a delivery can be set up. I knew if I was patient things would get worked out. Staying patient through this frustrating DME change has been hard, but I stayed patient.

We are getting her stuff tonight. Tomorrow I am meeting with a home health nurse to go over the new feeding pump and learn how to use this pump while she is at school. Right now I am SO grateful for Lilly her feeding tube doll we made for her when she was less than a year old. I will be using this doll to learn how to use her pump and backpack.

Perfect Attendance for Jairon!!!

In the craziness of everything this past term at school Ellie missed 20 of the 70 assigned school days. I do not know about Zach or Corbyn, but I was SHOCKED to learn today that Jairon got a perfect attendance award for the past 70 days at school!

I know some where I am doing something right when all 4 of my elementary kids are getting good grades at school, love going, getting good behavior, and other academic awards, and somehow 1 or 2 are surprising me with perfect attendance awards despite all the extra dr appointments, illnesses some of the kids have, and are striving to get higher grades at school...

Way to go Jairon! Corbyn and Zach I can't wait to see what awards you bring home. Ellie, I know you missed your class awards this morning, but you are doing amazing anyway!!! I can't wait to see what you will bring home too!